介绍： You cannot control or dictate the opinions and attitudes of other people. All you can do is live your best life. Be a decent person. And live and speak with integrity. And then you know that you can go asleep go to sleep at night knowing that you did your best today. That's it. 
你无法控制或左右他人的看法和态...

介绍： You cannot control or dictate the opinions and attitudes of other people. All you can do is live your best life. Be a decent person. And live and speak with integrity. And then you know that you can go asleep go to sleep at night knowing that you did your best today. That's it. 
你无法控制或左右他人的看法和态度。你所能做的，就是活出最好的自己。做一个正直的人。言行一致，保持正直。每晚入睡时，你便能确信自己今天已竭尽全力。仅此而已。
You can't please everybody. There will always be people who don't like your hair, don't like your face, don't like the sound of your voice, don't believe the things that you say.
你无法取悦所有人。总会有人不喜欢你的发型、不喜欢你的长相、不喜欢你的声音，也不相信你说的话。
One thing for me that I know people assume is that really well-educated, well-bred, well-read, you know, probably had a bit of privilege. I was a little street scrapper. My parents had absolutely nothing.
大家常常认为我是一个受过良好教育，教养良好，博览群书，或许还享有某些特权的人。其实我曾是个街头混混。我的父母一无所有。
But people don't think that of me because I speak well. And I absolutely understand why people wouldn't think that. But there's a reason why I speak very well and it's because my maternal grandmother went to Italia Conti which is a very famous theater school. She was in the same year as Norah Howard. So she was taught how to speak. She grew up above a pub on Charlotte Street. She was taught how to speak well.
但人们不会这么看我，因为我说话得体。我完全理解为什么大家会觉得我不是一个街头混混。我说话得体得归功于我外祖母，我外祖母曾就读于意大利孔蒂戏剧艺术学院，那是一所非常著名的戏剧学校。她和诺拉·霍华德是同届生。她受过语言训练。她在夏洛特街一家酒吧楼上长大的。她从小就被教导要好好说话。
So when she had her six children, they copied the mother tongue. So when I was born, we copied our mother's tongue, which was to speak well. And so and it drives me crazy that I would never be able to correct what people think, but I can't do anything about that. I can't do anything about that at all.
当她生下六个孩子时，孩子们自然模仿了母亲的说话方式。所以我出生后，我们也继承了母亲的说话方式，那就是说话得体。但这让我很抓狂，因为我永远无法纠正别人的看法，我对此无能为力。我对此真的无能为力。
And you know what? It's okay. Let them think what they're going to think. You can't live your life trying to change the opinions of other people. It doesn't work. You'll make yourself miserable.
但你知道吗？这没什么大不了的。他们爱怎么想就怎么想吧。你不可能一辈子都试图去改变别人的看法，那根本行不通，只会让自己痛苦不堪。