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本文讲述握手的艺术-你是不是很迷惑怎么握手才是最礼貌呢？来听听吧~~ ☾words:profound [prə'faʊnd] adj. 深厚的；意义深远的；amplified [...

介绍： frank慢说英语☊给你最真切的低音☊ frank微信：frankinchina ，对本文有任何问题欢迎留言哦~
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本文讲述握手的艺术-你是不是很迷惑怎么握手才是最礼貌呢？来听听吧~~ ☾words:profound [prə'faʊnd] adj. 深厚的；意义深远的；amplified ['æmplifai] adj. 放大的；扩充的duration[djʊ'reɪʃ(ə)n] n. 持续，持续的时间；tactic ['tæktɪk] n. 策略，战略rehearse [rɪ'hɜːs] vt. 排练；预演moderate ['mɒd(ə)rət] adj. 稳健的，温和的；适度的assuredness [ə'ʃuədnis] n. 确实；自信；big-time offense 大错，严重的冒犯；☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊
Here is something significant and profound about the way another man shakes your hand. Be it your father, friend or potential client, there are ways of decoding someone through their handshake. What does a handshake say about you? Everything. Your handshake can imply a firm confidence or an insecurity.Knowing how to shake a hand properly is a forgotten art.This is Frank Mars Learning English,I’m Frank Mars and we will discuss the power of a handshake.
Men have failed to teach others a genuine shake because they fail to realize its importance. Notice how great leaders shake with authority — power and command amplified through their right hand. What kind of authority is in your handshake?In many parts of Asia and the Middle East, people use their left hand to wipe themselves—often without the benefit of toilet paper. That means touching someone with your left hand—for example, gripping a guy’s hand in both of yours during a handshake, or touching his arm with your left hand while shaking—is a big-time offense in certain regions.You should only shake for 2 seconds at most. While people are put off by an uncomfortably long handshake, a too-quick shake gives the impression the speedy shaker is arrogant or disinterested, finds a study from the U.K. The researchers say a handshake duration of 1 to 2 seconds is most appropriate.
A weak handshake screams a frail inner core. The firmness of your grasp helps someone determine your character, or lack of it. During an interview, the employer will use many tactics to decide if you are fit for work, and the handshake is often a test right at the beginning. Considering the investment employers make in someone, it is obvious that none would want “weak” in their future.
The bone-crushing grip:How should a handshake with too much power be judged? In truth, just as harshly as a delicate shake, if not more so. When someone shakes too hard or for too long, it suggests negative excess . It makes some wonder what the death grip is compensating for. At least with someone with a weak handshake, there can be no question about how they present themselves.
Know your handshake for her:There is a sense of confidence, security and trustworthiness in a firm and balanced handshake. The women in your life will take note of this. Show that confidence when you shake her hand. A woman wants the good qualities that go hand-in-hand with an assured grasp. Have a weak shake? Don’t be surprised if she quickly loses interest and waves you away. Body Language expert and author of Body Language Robert Phipps shows you how to give the perfect handshake, and decode what someone's handshake says about them and their perception of you and the situation. (expert’s voice)``````````````````````````````````````````
Rehearse and refine:Practice your handshake every chance you get. Even the act of extending your hand first implies confidence. Ask your friends for feedback. Is it too strong, too light or just right? Don’t know how to shake a woman’s hand? Introduce yourself with a good shake to the first woman you see on the street .A poor shake can impact the kind of man you can or will become. Becoming a Better Man begins with the right hand — so start now. Develop, improve and refine the assuredness of your handshake.
As you step out of the elevator and into the office where you might work for the next 10 years, take a deep breath. Pretend there is a string pulling from the top of your head toward the ceiling. Bring back your shoulders. Walk to the interviewer with long strides at a moderate pace. Smile. Stick your right arm straight out to shake their hand with confidence. Display with conviction that you are the Better Man. Question today: On what occasions do you shake others’ hand? You are listening to Frank Mars Learning English,if you have any comments or ideas about our topic, and interested in listening more,please subscribe for new shows,thank you！Music...... ~~~~~点击页面右上方“订阅”，收听更多更新.................#Background music: Winterplay-June Ballad;Blake Shelton-Sangria☊☊
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