介绍： Should people in love burp, pass gas or pick their nose in front of their partners?
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每个刚刚陷入恋情的人都会非常在意自己的形象，争取在恋人...

介绍： Should people in love burp, pass gas or pick their nose in front of their partners?
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每个刚刚陷入恋情的人都会非常在意自己的形象，争取在恋人面前展现出最好的一面。然而，随着彼此逐渐熟悉，就会变得很随意，一些坏习惯也随之暴露出来。那么，对方真的会毫不在意吗？一起来听听吧~~☾words: sweatpants ['swetpænts] n.（美）宽松长运动裤assume[ə'sjuːm]vi. 装腔作势；多管闲事vt. 承担；假定；采取； potentially[pə'tenʃəli]adv. 可能地，潜在地turnoff  让人扫兴的人、物；push the margins/limits:突破底线； the rule of thumb单凭经验 Familiarity breeds contempt亲不尊，熟生蔑hygiene['haɪdʒiːn] n. 卫生；卫生学;the new car smell:比喻恋爱开始时兴奋感；
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At the start of every relationship, both people put forth every effort to present the best version of themselves. Hair is clean and manners are great and each person dresses to impress. But as several months pass and the couple grows closer, different people start to appear.Welcome to the world of sweatpants, messy hair and gross behaviors. Things you would normally do only in private— burping, eating like a slob, passing gas, picking your nose — you may feel free to do in front of the other person because you assume they will be fine with it.But that isn't always the case.This is Frank Mars Learning English,I’m Frank Mars and we are discussing Where love meets comfort today:
"Ideally, you want to be able to push the margins and be completely comfortable and open with your partner so that you could potentially keep the bathroom door open, go without makeup, burp, etc., but if that's the rule of thumb all the time, it can become a turnoff," said Jane Greer, a marriage and family therapist based in New York.Sure, it's natural to let one's guard down and reveal the real you as the relationship evolves, but don't leave behind the person your partner fell for initially.
Carole Lieberman, a psychiatrist and relationship expert based in Beverly Hills, Calif., said before couples decide to let it all hang out, they should remember the phrase, "Familiarity breeds contempt.""Once you start tearing down the walls and acting like your significant other isn't in the room, you will lose any allure or air of mystery that you once had," Lieberman said. It could jeopardize the romance in the relationship, and after a while, you may wish you had never seen this side of your partner. It may cause you to lose respect for each other, she warned.
Getting too "up close and personal" with a partner may also tempt a wandering eye. For instance, Lieberman said, "When you see other potential mates whose bodily functions you haven't been exposed to, they seem more alluring."
But Stan Tatkin, couples therapist and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, said that it is inevitable that with time, the mystery and excitement surrounding a relationship will fade — no matter what two people do."There's no way to preserve that new car smell," he said. “The Real” hosts chat it up about how sweatpants can be a sign you’re getting too comfortable in your relationship. Check it out next:(voice from TV SHOW )☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊☺☊☊

The way to keep the passion alive is to never stop paying attention to your partner. Continue to listen, to watch and to learn more about them every day, he said."You can't make yourself mysterious and have a secure relationship," Tatkin added. "But you can stay in love by being yourself and staying transparent."
You shouldn't have to be at the top of your game around your significant other 24-7, but there should be a balance. Experts shared their advice to help couples talk about and determine their own comfort levels and what extra efforts should never fall by the wayside.Personal hygiene is a must. Sure, there will be days when you skip the shower, but don't make it a regular habit. If your partner asks when you last showered or brushed your teeth, don't take offense. Speak up when something grosses you out. Don't be afraid to say, "It turns me off when you do this …" or "It makes me feel less respect for you when you do this …," Lieberman said.Don't ignore your partner's complaints. If your significant other has told you for the millionth time that they can't stand it when you burp, don't continue to do it and assume it's a cute annoyance. This will cause the problem to explode. What do you think?Should couples stay transparent to each other all the time?Let me know in the comments.You are listening to Frank Mars Learning English,if you are interested in listening more,please subscribe for new shows,thank you！Music...... ~~~~~点击页面右上方“订阅”，收听更多更新.................#Background music:Ron Korb-The Day I Lost My Love；Elizabeth Mitchell-You Are My Sunshine ☊☊ ✍☈Edited by Frank Mars