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Being likable is entirely under your control. All it takes is the ability to pick up a few key social skills that build emotional intelligence (EQ).To help you out, we sifted through the Quora thread, "What are useful social skills that can be picked up quickly?" and highlighted our favorite answers.Here are six simple ways to start crafting a "million-dollar personality" and be the most likable person in the room:This is Frank Mars Learning English,I’m Frank Mars and we are discussing 6 simple social skills that will make you more likable :
1. Make eye contact. "It is an idiotically simple thing, but it remains one of the most impactful life skills around," writes Quora user Brad Porter. "The most attractive quality in a person is confidence. But 'be confident' is not very good advice. Instead, find the best proxy for confidence, in terms of interactive behavior. And that's eye contact."
Start this habit immediately, says Porter. It requires no practice or special skill; just the commitment to meet someone's gaze and look them in the eye while conversing.
2. Put your smart-phone in your pocket. And keep it there until your conversation or meeting is over. Basil puts it simply: "Pay attention. Look at them. Stop what you're doing. No interruptions."This is another simple, yet effective habit that can be executed immediately and does not require any effort or skill.
3. Call people by name.The next time someone greets you by name or uses your name mid-conversation, remember how great that feels. If you have trouble putting names to face, try different strategies, such as writing them down or using imagery or rhymes associated with the name. Quora user Howard Lee suggests repeating their name verbally when you're first introduced, and then twice more in your head.
4. Smile. Don't underestimate the power of smiling.Additionally, laugh and tell jokes, recommends Quora user Craig Fraser. People unconsciously mirror the body language of the person they're talking to; if you want to be likable, use positive body language and people will naturally return the favor.
5. Give a firm handshake."Not too hard, certainly not limp and soft, and with no dominance play," writes Tony Vincent.Research shows that people decide whether or not they like you within seconds of meeting you. A firm handshake contributes largely to that first impression, as do strong posture and positive body language.
6. Listen. Listen more than you speak, says Quora user Mark Bridgeman: "You have two ears, only one mouth. That's the ratio you should use them with." Don't just listen—actively listen. Simply hearing words doesn't cut it. Likable people truly listen to the person they're talking to.
I would be very approachable, smile, wave to people when you see them. Be yourself and not fake. Apologize when you have done something wrong, and don't try to impress. Be who you are, and if this person doesn't like you, so what? It is their problem, not yours.Certified life coach Marie Dubuque explains next:(Marie’s voice~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~)
I know what you’re thinking: But people suck! It’s true, everyone has moments when they act rudely and everyone can be annoying from time to time. But deep down, most people are really nice. They care about others, and unless they’re having a bad day, they’re easy to get along with. Likeable people know this, and so they like people. They want to get to know other people, and they enter every interaction expecting a positive experience. If you only remember one tip from this article, it should be to develop the attitude of liking people. If you do that you’ll become more likeable in no time.
Likeable people were all less likeable at one point in time. They simply decided to work at becoming more engaged, more respectful, and more likeable. Now they seem to work magic and develop friendships wherever they go. You can seem like that too! You simply have to develop the habits I’ve outlined above and you’ll have the social life, the career, and the life that being more likeable brings you.What about you? When was the last time you interacted with a truly likeable person? What did they say or do that made you instantly take interest in them? Let me know in the comments.You are listening to Frank Mars Learning English,if you are interested in listening more,please subscribe for new shows,thank you！Music...... ~~~~~点击页面右上方“订阅”，收听更多更新.................#Background music:Jason Wade-You Belong To Me;Tommy Emmanuel-Since We Met ☊☊ ✍☈Edited by Frank Mars