介绍： My father, ever considerate, said, " See, you can sing, darling. That was good. "

一向体贴人的父亲说："你看，你也可以唱的，宝贝。唱得很好。"

I have often remembered how warm, happy and loved I felt growing up.

我常常记得成长的过程中感受到的温暖、幸福和关爱。

It took me years, though, to learn that the lov...

介绍： My father, ever considerate, said, " See, you can sing, darling. That was good. "

一向体贴人的父亲说："你看，你也可以唱的，宝贝。唱得很好。"

I have often remembered how warm, happy and loved I felt growing up.

我常常记得成长的过程中感受到的温暖、幸福和关爱。

It took me years, though, to learn that the love in our family didn't just happen.

虽然我花了好些年才知道，家人的爱不是凭空产生的。

In fact, love never just happens - not even to people who seem as naturally loving as my mother and father.

事实上，爱从来就不是凭空产生的，甚至对那些看上去像我父母那样天生充满爱的人来说也一样。

But, I would hedge to bet, there is a framework you must live within to let this gift that has no rivals mature.

但是，我愿打赌，你必须生活于一个构架之中，方能让爱这一无与伦比的礼物瓜熟蒂落。

First, love needs time. Perhaps people can recognize in a moment the possibility for love, and make grand declarations such as " I love you" within weeks of having met, but this love is comparable to the beginning of a long road up a mountain with many ups and downs.

首先，爱需要时间。也许人们可以一眼看到爱的可能，见面几周后就郑重宣布"我爱你"等等，但是这样的爱，相当于刚开始爬山，而这漫长的爬山之路充满着起起落落。