介绍： Why Do Some People Just Click?
The peculiar alchemy that causes us to click with some people and not with others—romantically or platonically—has been a preoccupation of poets for centuries, but it has only recently drawn the attention of scientists. 
During meaningful conversations, there is an associated ...

介绍： Why Do Some People Just Click?
The peculiar alchemy that causes us to click with some people and not with others—romantically or platonically—has been a preoccupation of poets for centuries, but it has only recently drawn the attention of scientists. 
During meaningful conversations, there is an associated syncing, or coupling, of neural patterns or brain waves. You and the other person are, at that moment, of like minds. Neuroscientists call such coordinated movement and autonomic activity “interpersonal synchrony.” You can think of it as a kind of Spidey sense that flags whether someone is friend or foe.
By subconsciously mirroring even the subtlest twitches of expression and biological rhythms of other people, we can channel their thoughts and feelings. The downside is that we can sometimes get so swept up in other people’s drama, anger or fear that we lose sight of where others end and we begin.
Given the dynamic, subconscious and autonomic nature of interpersonal synchrony, we should all probably give ourselves a break if we cannot claim to like everyone we meet. While we should all try to be courteous and get along, part of maturity is realizing that you won’t click with everyone.
Sometimes we need to disconnect to recalibrate and reclaim ourselves. The relationships that endure, however, are the ones where you are in sync more than you are not. 
生词好句
1.click 英 [klɪk] 美 [klɪk] v.（本文）一拍即合，瞬间合拍；点击
click作拟声词，表示像钥匙转动门锁"咔哒"一声对上
We just clicked. 我们就是很合拍。
2.peculiar 英 [pɪˈkjuːliər] 美 [pɪˈkjuːliər] adj. 奇怪的，独特的，难以言喻的
3.alchemy 英 [ˈælkəmi] 美 [ˈælkəmi] n. 炼金术，比喻神秘的转化力量（能把A变成B）
4.platonically 英 [pləˈtɒnɪkli] 美 [pləˈtɑːnɪkli] adv. 纯友谊地（不涉及浪漫关系，源自柏拉图《会饮篇》）
5.preoccupation 英 [priːˌɒkjuˈpeɪʃən] 美 [priːˌɑːkjuˈpeɪʃən] n. 执念、心头大事、萦绕心头的事（pre-提前 + occupy占据）
We live in a consumer society in which money is a massive preoccupation.我们生活在一个金钱是极大关注点的消费社会。
She found his preoccupation with money irritating. 她对他一心只想着钱感到很厌烦。