介绍： 这是一个小女孩儿的故事。大家还记得，16、17岁的年纪，喜欢上一个小哥哥的那种感觉吗？心里甜甜的，在一个房间里的时候，总是忍不住，搜寻那个人的眼光。就像她一样：
I'm falling hard for this guy (who will not be named).
两个人的身份
That alone doesn't sound bad but he just so happens to be one of my best friends' ol...

介绍： 这是一个小女孩儿的故事。大家还记得，16、17岁的年纪，喜欢上一个小哥哥的那种感觉吗？心里甜甜的，在一个房间里的时候，总是忍不住，搜寻那个人的眼光。就像她一样：
I'm falling hard for this guy (who will not be named).
两个人的身份
That alone doesn't sound bad but he just so happens to be one of my best friends' older brother.
两个人的年龄
I'm going to say this now, I am a 16 year old girl and he just turned 19 in May and graduated high school in June. We're technically two years apart so the age difference ain't bad at all.
见面的场景
I had a crush on him from the moment I was over at their house and he walks in through the back door and asks "who is this?" With a confused face that quickly turned to a goofy smile. Not only is he ridiculously attractive but he's also insanely nice, a little nerdy, love video games, and has the same taste as me with just about everything.
Anytime we see each other he waves and gives me a huge smile. If he has his headphones on and I walk in the room he immediately takes them off. He once gave me his jacket when I was cold which I'm still confused about whether that means he likes you or if he's just being polite.
I think it's really cute when we all watch horror movies and he covers his eyes a lot. He turned off his video game just to show me one episode of a show he really likes. Whenever something happens I always find myself looking towards him to see his reaction.
When we were watching stand up comedy (which he loves) he said watching my face/reactions was more entertaining than the show. I don't get crushes much so it's a big deal. Don't give me that crap about being "too young to know" and such. I like him a big deal. I don't know if he likes me back or not but he might. I don't want to tell my friend because I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship. I do want to figure out if he likes me though, I know he likes me as a person and thinks I'm cool but I want to know if he likes me the way I like him.
I'm nervous if something were to happen though because he's experienced relationship wise and I've never had a boyfriend ever. Would it be better if I made it clear that I liked him? Or for me to see if he likes me? How would I do that? Please, help is really appreciated.

1 如果只是想要结束，要一个 closure，那就坦白和他说
Tell your friend you have a crush if you need closure. Letting your friend know how you feel might set you free from emotional pressure and pain. You won't have as many questions about how they feel, whether they reciprocate your feeling, or how to read into moments with them. You won't have to deal with "what-ifs" or what could have been because you'll have your closure.
Closure is especially important if you want to move on from this crush. With so many unanswered questions, you might not feel ready to date other people.

Talking to your friend will require you to be vulnerable. Vulnerability takes courage because it means you could face disappointment.
However, it's an important communication skill and something you will need in future relationships.
If you don't tell your friend you care for them, they might never know the extent of your feelings. Letting them know can help them fully understand your friendship and give you support, if needed.

2 如果想要保持友谊，也要和他说
Reveal how you feel if the friendship has changed. If feelings are left unsaid, you might distance yourself from your friend or act differently around them without noticing. In response, your friend might be unsure what's happened. They might worry that they did something wrong or that you don't care for them anymore. Opening up about your feelings can get rid of miscommunication.
Being vulnerable about tough feelings is important in friendships. If you can't express your emotions, you and your friend may not feel connected or safe around each other.

3 如果你的朋友，已经在和别人交往了，那建议你，就不要提起了
Don't tell your friend if they are in a relationship. When your friend is dating another person, it's usually best not to tell them about your feelings. Telling them you like them could bring conflicting emotions into the