介绍： 《飘摇风雪夜 似是故人来》
主播：Victoria

珍惜当下，失去总是猝不及防
Cherish the moment, cuz the loss will always caught you off guard

几天前，闲来无事翻看手机通讯录，竟发现：
好多人，连模样都想不起来了；
好多人，连当初是怎么认识的都忘记了；
还有一些人，过往历历在目，但也很久很久不联系了…
A few days ago, I...

介绍： 《飘摇风雪夜 似是故人来》
主播：Victoria

珍惜当下，失去总是猝不及防
Cherish the moment, cuz the loss will always caught you off guard

几天前，闲来无事翻看手机通讯录，竟发现：
好多人，连模样都想不起来了；
好多人，连当初是怎么认识的都忘记了；
还有一些人，过往历历在目，但也很久很久不联系了…
A few days ago, I was free and at leisure looking at the phone contacts and found out:
There are so many people who I can't recollect his or her appearance;
There are so many people that I even forgot how we met for the first time;
and some I remember how we got along with, but we haven't been in touch for a long time...

不知不觉，大家聊着聊着就断了，走着走着就散了，猛然一回头才发现，身边的人越来越少了。
我们，到底是如何走散的呢？
Unconsciously, people interact less and less, slowly leaving each other, and suddenly realize that there are fewer and fewer people around.
How we ended up like this?

不管友情还是爱情，当两个人都懒得再去主动，懒得再去了解对方的世界，也就是一段关系变淡的开始。
Whether it's friendship or love, when two people are too lazy to take the initiative to know each other's world, it's the beginning of the collapse of a relationship.

一个不问，一个不说；一个问得尴尬，一个答得敷衍。
时间久了，彼此之间只剩无话可说。倾诉与倾听的欲望早已烟消云散，感情也就走到了尽头。
One does not ask, one does not say;
An awkward question, a perfunctory answer.
gradually there was nothing left to share with each other.
The desire to talk and listen was lost, and the relationship came to an end.

有许多恋人，在一起时争吵不断，三天一小吵，五天一大吵。彼此吵得面红耳赤，却谁都不肯退让一步。
There are many lovers, when they were together, they always have quarrels, even fights.
They were quarreling with each other, and no one would take a step back.

其实很多感情变淡，都因为一个不退，一个不让。争吵、冷战，甜蜜耗尽，最后只剩一拍两散。
In fact, the reason why we always ended up on our own is because both of us are not willing to give in.
The quarrel, the cold war, the exhaustion of happiness, making it even harder to be together.

刚开始只是单纯地想赢，到最后却输掉了最珍贵的人。
At first, you just want to win, but you lose the most precious person in the end.

人和人走散的原因里，还有一种是最无力的：我们分离其实并没有什么理由，不过是岁月在变迁，我们在长大。
There is also one of the most powerless reasons for people to be separated: there is no reason for us to be separated actually, but time is passing by and we are growing up.

从小到大，我们经历过太多的分别。
小学到初中，初中到高中，高中到大学。我们身边的环境一直在改变。
可能你没有意识到，其实，我们与许多人已是最后一面。
we have experienced too many separates as we grow up.
Primary school to middle school, middle school to high school, high school to college.
The environment around us has been changing.
You may not realize that, in fact, there’re so many people we would never see each other again.

有许多人原本是好朋友，但因为学校的改变，彼此的圈子不一样了，生活的轨迹也不一样了，就慢慢地减少了联系，到最后的无话可说。
就这样失掉了彼此。
Many people were good friends, but as the school changes, the social circle of each other is different, the trajectory of life is different, gradually losing contact, till friendship turn into silence.
So we lost each other.

这样的分别让我们猝不及防。
Farewells like this caught us off guard.

其实，谁都没有错，只是在人生无数的路口面前，我们做出了不同的选择。不同的选择也让我们之间的距离越来越远。最后，消失不见。
In fact, no one is wrong, but we have made different choices of countless intersections.
Different choices also lead to the consequence that the distance between us is getting further and further away.
Finally, disappear.

所以，珍惜当下，别在已经失去时，才觉得可惜。
So, cherish the moment, don't feel pity when it’s already too late to regret.